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turning good men
into great lovers
Radically upgrade your emotional capacity to lead epic, lasting love & master the relational language to grow it over time.
This is capacity training for the man who has everything... except the relational skills to lead it.
Welcome Brother,
You're a good man. Honorable. Devoted. High-capacity in everything you've built.
And yet, when intimacy gets real, something shifts.
She pulls back and you spiral. Tension rises and you tighten. The moment calls for leadership and you freeze, fold, or over-accommodate. You become someone you don't recognize.
Most good men don't lack heart. They lack skill. They lack capacity. They lack the relational intelligence to take everything they feel — and lead it.
That's exactly what this program trains.
BECOME the MAN WHO...
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Stays grounded when desire spikes, conflict hits, or she pulls back
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Reads attraction, tension, and emotional signals like a second language
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Turns triggers into trust and conflict into deeper connection
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Leads in the bedroom with confidence, not performance
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Is trusted, desired, and chosen — without chasing or proving
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Knows exactly what he wants and communicates it without hesitation
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Creates safety so deep she opens her heart, her body, and her life to him
Develop
Relational Clarity, Emotional Command,
& Erotic Authority
in 4 months
...without years of trial and error
Intimacy is a trainable art.
Most men believe confidence is personality. That attraction is chemistry. That conflict is compatibility.
It's not. It's skill. It's capacity. It's relational intelligence trained in the body, not just understood in the mind.
You don't learn about love here. You train to lead it.
Like a martial art — technique, body awareness, nervous system regulation, situational training, timing. The same precision you've applied to everything else you've built, now applied to the one area that matters most.
This is the Lead (in) Love Dojo.
We train in
3 core capacitites
The 7 Intimacies™ Framework
Know exactly what to do with attraction, desire, and intimate relating.
Situational Training
Real-time guidance & nervous system training for high-stakes moments.
Erotic
Authority
Cultivate your erotic identity, sexual life force, & magnetic confidence
What you will learn...
RELATIONAL CLARITY
This is the unfair advantage that no one else is teaching. A complete upgrade in how you understand, build, and lead intimacy.
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Read attraction and tension accurately
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Map your relationship dynamic
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Identify alignment & misalignment
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Communicate your desires clearly
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Stop guessing what’s happening
Situational training
Navigate shutdowns, emotional storms, distance, or confusion with clarity and leadership. No more guessing. You train in what you're facing.
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Hold your ground when she's in an emotional storm
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De-escalate conflict
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Hold emotional intensity
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Take responsibility instead of reacting
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Lead difficult conversations
EROTIC AUTHORITY
Inspire surrender and keep the fire alive. Stop performing and start leading from truth, power, and clarity. This is not about performance. This is about presence.
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Create and sustain polarity
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Escalate attraction intentionally
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Hold erotic charge without insecurity
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Introduce depth and challenge confidently
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Lead desire instead of chasing it
The way Everett teaches intimacy is so grounded and relatable. He makes the complexities feel simple and clear. I feel like I can finally see everything clearly... where I felt special connection, where I didn’t, and why! I saw patterns, codependencies, savior complexes… all of it. It was like the lights turned on.
Matt, 33
As a single man, this helped me identify what intimacy I actually have with women AND with my friends. It took the pressure off and helped me feel safe and honored in every connection.
JP, 42
Working with Ev shifted something huge for me. I feel lighter, clearer, and actually hopeful about my relationship again. He helped me see what was mine, what wasn’t, and where my body was holding fear. I’ve been doing somatic work for years, and this hit differently. WOW!
Stephen, 27
Meet
EVERETT SATORU
Creator of the 7 Intimacies™ Framework | Intimacy Guide | Relational Leadership Coach
Everett Satoru is an intimacy guide, relational intelligence coach, and the creator of the 7 Intimacies™ — a proprietary framework for understanding, mapping, and navigating every dimension of human connection.
Over the past five years, he has facilitated sold-out workshops, retreats, men circles, ceremonies, & worked 1:1 with men, women, & couples, building a growing movement around one core truth: Intimacy is not a mystery. It's a trainable art.
His work sits at a rare intersection — part relational intelligence, part nervous system training, part erotic leadership. Grounded enough for the skeptic. Deep enough for the seeker. Practical enough to use tonight.
"I was the same man you are right now. I had heart. I had devotion. I had everything to give. And I had no idea what to do with any of it. I didn't lack love. I lacked the map."
This is a 1:1 Private Mentorship Dojo
teaching you how to stay centered, skillful, responsive, & effective under pressure... when the emotional stakes a real.
Here, we treat (intimacy) like a martial art
combining technique, body awareness, mental clarity, emotional regulation, timing, & situational training to navigate all forms of intensity with mastery rather than panic.
At the heart of this work, intimacy is a skill.
A trainable art that most people don't understand intelligently–in the body and the mind. We inherit primal urges, divine intuition, and a lifetime of untrained emotional patterning, and then we expect ourselves to navigate love with clarity.
Lead (in) Love teaches you the art of bringing those forces into coherence. It’s where instinct becomes intelligence, where eros becomes orientation, and where you learn to stay present inside the very moments that used to overwhelm you.
This is the work of dissolving the three Mara forces. Desire, Hostility, and Delusion. Not by suppressing them, but by training your nervous system, your awareness, and your relational skills so they become power instead of sabotage.
This is relational leadership for men who want to take ownership of their love lives.
This is relational mastery for men who want to lead intimacy with the same precision, clarity, and power they lead life.
We train both capacity and technique.
CAPACITY (your inner foundation)
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Nervous system strength under pressure
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Emotional regulation when attraction, fear, or conflict spikes
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Staying present inside intensity instead of tightening, freezing, or overthinking
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Holding erotic charge without losing your center
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Expanding your ability to stay open, grounded, and responsive in the moments that used to overwhelm you
TECHNIQUE (your outward skillset)
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Clean communication (direct, grounded, no drama, no hiding)
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Reading energy, pacing, boundaries, and tension with precision
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Leadership in dating, romance, and erotic escalation
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Navigating conflict without shutting down or blowing up
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Repairing connection with ownership and integrity
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Guiding intimacy with confidence instead of performing or guessing
THE FRAMEWORK (your map)
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7 Intimacies (how to name, channel, and express connection with clarity)
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Erotic Intelligence (turn-on as orientation, not chaos)
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Attraction Mapping (energetic reading, pacing, and tension-handling)
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Kama Mara training (desire, hostility, delusion → power, clarity, truth)
This is the foundation men were never taught.
And once you train it, everything in your love life changes.
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and who you will become...
1. You Master Emotional Intensity
You stay steady when desire rises, when emotions surge, when the moment gets charged.
2. You Become the Center, Not the Storm
Calm, grounded, and unfuckwithable. So she can relax and open around you.
3. You Turn Desire Into Direction
Your turn-on sharpens your awareness instead of hijacking your mind.
4. You Trust Your Instincts & Intuition
Primal urges and divine intelligence working as one coherent system.
5. You Read Energy With Precision
Pacing, boundaries, invitations, tension, openness. You feel what’s real and respond cleanly.
6. You Communicate Truth Without Hesitation
Direct. Clean. Honest. No games. No avoidance. No collapse into old patterns.
7. You Create Safety Through Presence
Your grounded energy gives women permission to open, express, and soften.
8. You Lead Depth, Romance, & Eros With Ease
Flirtation, turn-on, connection, intimacy — no performance, just resonance and skill.
This is who you become when you train to Lead (in) Love.
A man who is both safe and powerful, who can hold intensity without losing himself, who rises in love, not falls apart inside it.
1. How long is the container?
Eight weeks.
Most men choose weekly sessions, but if you need more processing space, we can meet every other week.
Solid structure. Flexible cadence.
2. How long & where are the sessions?
75–90 minutes, Virtual Online
Long enough to get to the truth, train the skill, and integrate without rushing.
3. Is this for single, partnered, or couples?
Singles and partnered men.
If you’re in a relationship, you train your leadership. If you’re dating, you train clarity, direction, and attraction dynamics.
Couples are welcome! Each partner gets independent training inside the container.
4. What happens on the Discovery Call?
A grounded, honest conversation to map your situation, identify what’s actually going on, and see if this is the right training for you.
5. What results can I expect in 8 weeks?
You will:-
Stay steady when emotions or attraction intensify
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Communicate clearly without overthinking or spiraling
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Lead connection instead of guessing
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Move through conflict without shutting down or blowing up
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Stop leaking energy
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Hold erotic charge cleanly and confidently
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Build real intimacy instead of chaotic patterns
This work changes how you show up in every intimate moment.
6. I've read the books, done the workshops. Why is this different?
Because knowledge without training doesn't change behavior. You can understand everything Deida wrote and still freeze when she pulls away. This program trains your nervous system, not just your mind. Reps. Correction. Application. That's the difference.
7. What modalities do we train?
Emotional Intelligence
Nervous System Regulation
Erotic Intelligence
Relational Leadership
Somatic Awareness
Energy Reading & Pacing
7 Intimacies
Attraction Mapping & Orientation
8. What’s the investment?
This is a premium leadership container designed for real transformation, life integration, & accountability.
Most clients invest between $3k–$7k depending on the level of support chosen.
We map the exact tier on the call if we’re aligned.-
A LEADER IN LOVE...
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Understands how to read signals, emotions, and relational dynamics with clarity.
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Pushes edges, builds tension, and commands attraction with unwavering safety.
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Turns triggers into truth, conflict into growth, and jealousy into magnetic power.
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Owns his flaws, his blindspots, and his fears because he knows exactly what to do with them.
A leader who she can trust completely with her body, her heart, and her life.
The best part is, you already have the will… you just need the skill. And skills can be trained.
And that’s exactly why I created this program, to give men like you the proper skills to navigate love, sex, and intimacy with confidence and precision.
It's my greatest honor to help men like you meet the capacity of their hearts with their capacity to lead.